This entry is about the conversation between my parents.
Since my family moved to Brooklyn, lots of things has changed rapidly. Dad never response to us ( his children , Kevin and I), instead he only responses to us whenever we call for mom. Maybe dad has turned into a wo-man, after all he does resemble to his mom, our crazy bitchy grandmother, who orders people around since she still believes we are living in her centuries when she was a rich girl. Grandmother can be one spoil bitch and dad takes after her; dad enjoys ordering mom and me around but never Kevin and that's because he's the son of the family. Who the fuck till today in this century still continue this crappy theory, still cherishing to the male in the family. I know for sure ... I don't.
Lately my dad has short tempers and I assumed it must be his time of going through male-menopause. He eavesdropped all my skype and phone calls , and gets upset whenever I don't feed him the answers he wants to hear. He complains whenever I am not on his page or do the things he orders immediately and that's because, he has to understand his own daughter who is a virgo. Females virgo are well known to do things at their own pace and to not to be push around by others , or else we will ignore you.
Mom is even worst than dad. Her stage at her menopause are conflicting between cold and hot. Hot flashes are the worse symthomys which I can bare with. She shares a similarity symthoms with my father but one level beyond my dad. Every single day my aunt and her complains about their mother and how she's super selfish; ha!, i take after this grandma because i am a selfish bitch. I only care about myself and not for others. Anyway, when her sisters gets her upset, she takes her anger at me and half of time I blocked her , pretending she doesn't exist or just block my Chinese mode.
Overall, please help me! Someone please save me from these two obnoxious crazy people. I love my parents but don't think I can see myself living with them for the rest of my life.
Wendy,
ReplyDeleteOur parents are the ones that gave us life, and we cannot choose who we want to be our parents, therefore, we can only love them for who they are. Everyone is unique is their own ways, I guess this is what makes this world interesting. In any kinds of relationship, let it be parent-child, friendship, romantic relationship, to learn to be with them peacefully, the only thing we can do is to embrace their flaws and admire their talents and strengths. When things are not within our control, then we need to learn to move on. Always remember - Keep Calm and Carry On!
@ Glow: You're right. We can't choose our parents and must learn to love and live with them.
ReplyDeleteI've my rights to move away from them, but at the same time I can bare over the thoughts of leaving them alone. Months ago when my maternal grandma had once said to me that each of her children leaves her one by one, she felt lonely. The day when my mom insisted that i stayed with Grandma at the hospital , day by day, grandma would say, if not married yet, stay with parents until marriage comes. The minute and moments we live under one roof, shall cherish it for the rest of my life. There was this one phrase- what goes around,comes around. If I spend time caring for others and not be so self center, the next generation will do the same for me in the future. Maternal grandma was right.
I shall keep calm and carry on with any disagreements.
Awww, you're right!! If you take care of your grandparents now, your future children will do the same for you!!
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